How Does One Attract The Upper Light?

Question: How can I call the Upper Light for another person when I am indifferent toward him?

Answer: Gradually, by practicing together, you will begin to realize that if there isn’t any connection with others, it will not be possible for the Upper Light appear in the circulation between you.

And so you have no other choice but to be integrated with them and to create a system of connection between you in which the Upper Light will be manifested. The Upper Light is not revealed in a person himself but only in the connection between us.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 8/28/16