Monday, September 14, 2020

Criticism In The Family

959Question: Do you think it is correct to criticize your partner for any actions and shortcomings, or should we try to treat them as if from the outside, as a doctor treats a patient?
Answer: Not as a doctor treats a patient, but gently and lovingly show that you expect something a bit different from him. Then it will affect both you and him.
Question: Do you think it is necessary to criticize?
Answer: Criticism is when I express dissatisfaction, disregard, and suppress my partner by this. And when I show him that I want to get something different from him to demonstrate our mutual relationship, then it is not criticism.
Question: Is it worth using such a practice when you can speak frankly with your partner without leaving any secrets? Or is it better to build boundaries, mark them, and not cross them?
Answer: I believe that there should be no boundaries! As a result of the correct interaction between partners, there should be absolutely no secrets because spouses transform into one whole.
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From KabTV’s “The Post-Coronavirus Era” 5/21/20

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