What Is Connecting With A Friend?

Question: What is connecting with a friend?

Answer: This is when my friend and I are outside of our desires in a mutual connection that is called the vessel of mutual guarantee. My desire to support a friend and his desire to support me exist, and so we are in the middle between us.
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From the 4^th part of the  Daily Kabbalah Lesson 4/8/14, Writings of Rabash